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It’s not always easy to make sense of your inner world, especially if your feelings, thoughts, or relationships often feel overwhelming, confusing, or contradictory. Maybe you find yourself caught up in intense emotions, cycling through idealization and disappointment in relationships, or struggling to hold onto a stable sense of who you are. If any of […]

Would I Benefit From Transference-Focused Psychotherapy?

Client and therapist sitting on a couch in New York therapy office during transference-focused psychotherapy.

6/11/25

Mental Health, Personality Disorders, Relationships

You’re spending time with your family this holiday season, but you aren’t sure how to best handle difficult conversations that arise. Here, we’ll explore ten practical strategies to help you confidently navigate these uncomfortable discussions and protect your peace.

10 Tips for Navigating Difficult Conversations Over the Holidays

Two people eating silently while upset after having difficult conversations at holiday gathering

12/05/24

Relationships, Skills

The holiday season often brings families together, which can be joyful but also stressful, especially if you have to field prying questions from well-meaning but nosy relatives. As a therapist, I’m often asked how to handle personal or insensitive inquiries that pop up over Thanksgiving dinner. Here are some of my tips: Set boundaries ahead […]

Dealing With Hard Questions at Thanksgiving: A Therapist’s Advice

11/14/23

Mental Health, Relationships

Communication is the number one issue couples go to therapy for and one of the main things I work on with my clients in session. But it makes sense. Our emotions get heightened when communication gets tough and even more so if a resolution isn’t reached. We can feel misunderstood, invalidated, threatened, or offended when […]

Assertive Communication: How to Get What You Want, With Skill

8/22/23

Mental Health, Relationships, Skills

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